Valentine’s Day is often associated with grand romantic gestures, chocolates, and flowers, but at its core, it’s a celebration of love. Additionally, for those who may not have a partner, it can sometimes feel like a day of loneliness, often referred to as Single Awareness Day. Let’s start looking at Valentine’s Day differently. While we may frequently focus on showing love to others, it’s just as important to show love to ourselves. Self-care is the ultimate act of self-love, and what better time to prioritize it than during a season dedicated to the heart?
Why Self-Care Matters
Self-care isn’t just about indulging in spa days or treating yourself to your favorite dessert—though those can be wonderful! It’s about intentionally caring for your mental, emotional, physical, and, if possible, financial well-being. In our busy lives, we often put others first, whether our families, jobs, or community commitments. We usually push our own needs aside. However, there’s a reason why flight attendants instruct us to put on our own oxygen masks first before assisting others. Ensuring our own well-being first enables us to better support those around us. Taking time to nurture ourselves allows us to show up more fully for the people and responsibilities that matter most. Seeking guidance is also a form of self-care. This could be reaching out to a friend, a family member, or a counselor.
Simple Ways to Practice Self-Care
If you’re unsure where to start, here are a few simple yet meaningful ways to prioritize self-care this Valentine’s Day:
1. Nourish Your Body
Remember to eat like you love yourself! Fuel yourself with foods that make you feel good—both physically and emotionally. Cook a nutritious meal, enjoy a cup of tea, or savor that piece of chocolate guilt-free. You can find healthy recipes on www.FoodHero.org. Meal planning, shopping smart, and preparing healthy meals can also be a from of self-care as it takes the stress away of meal time. Try meal prepping at the beginning of the week to save time and make healthier choices easier.
2. Move in a Way That Feels Good
Exercise doesn’t have to be a chore. Whether it’s a walk outside, a yoga session, or dancing in your living room, find movement that brings you joy. This could even be something small, like taking the stairs instead of the elevator or parking farther away from the door when going somewhere. Did you know that getting at least 150 minutes of physical activity each week can significantly lower your risk of developing chronic diseases? Small daily changes can add up to make the biggest impact. It’s also a natural antidepressant that can help brighten these cold, dark winter days.
3. Prioritize Rest
Give yourself permission to slow down. Take a nap, go to bed earlier, or spend some time reading a book without distractions. It’s okay to skip an event if you need time for yourself. Establish a nighttime routine to help you wind down. This could mean putting electronics away at a certain time or taking a few minutes before bed to stretch. Listen to your body and rest when you need it.
4. Engage in Activities That Bring Joy
What makes you feel truly heart happy? Maybe it’s painting, gardening, playing music, playing with your fur babies, or simply taking a mid-day nap. Carve out time for the things that make you happy. Start small by dedicating 10 minutes a day to something you love. Treat it like an important meeting with your boss—one you wouldn’t cancel.
5. Set Boundaries
Saying ‘no’ can be an act of self-care. Protect your time and energy by setting boundaries that allow you to prioritize what truly matters. Boundaries help create balance in your life and prevent burnout. They allow you to manage your emotional well-being by limiting interactions that drain you and focusing on those that uplift you. Setting boundaries might look like turning off your phone during personal time, declining commitments that overwhelm you, or clearly communicating your needs to others. Remember, setting boundaries is not about shutting people out; it’s about making space for what brings you peace and fulfillment.
6. Practice Self-Compassion
Be kind to yourself. Speak to yourself as you would a dear friend, and let go of perfectionism. You are worthy of love and care exactly as you are. Self-compassion also means acknowledging your progress, no matter how small, and celebrating the effort you put into improving yourself. Give yourself grace on difficult days and remember that setbacks are a part of growth. Practicing self-compassion can also involve journaling positive affirmations, engaging in self-care activities that make you feel valued, and surrounding yourself with people who uplift and encourage you.
A Valentine’s Day Promise to Yourself
This Valentine’s Day, promise to love yourself a little more and be kinder to yourself. Whether that means treating yourself with kindness, taking a break, or simply acknowledging your own worth, Understand that taking time for yourself might feel unusual, and change can be scary and uncomfortable, but prioritizing self-care is essential and takes time. Self-care is not all or nothing; it’s about taking it one day at a time. Recognize that you are just as deserving of the love and support you give to others. Self-care isn’t selfish—it’s necessary. You are important and you matter to so many people.
So, while you’re celebrating love in all its forms, don’t forget to celebrate yourself too. You deserve it.
Written by: Galena Flores, SNAP- Education Program Assistant, and Tillamook County Wellness Contributor
October was Emergency Preparedness Month. It was a reminder that we can be caught off guard at any moment and that negative consequences of the unexpected can be greatly reduced if we take advance action to prevent the worst from happening.
Our most recent emergency was the covid-19 pandemic. As we rebuild after that event, it is important to consider what we learned and to apply that knowledge to avoid further devasting outcomes. What we learned during the covid-19 pandemic is that individuals with chronic diseases like type 2 diabetes were at far greater risk of severe illness and death.
November is Diabetes Awareness Month. Type 2 Diabetes is occurring with far more frequency than earthquakes or hurricanes. We know what we need to do to prepare for and prevent its onset but we are not taking action in time to prevent it. We can screen for both type 2 diabetes and prediabetes. If we identify the condition at the prediabetes stage, there is much a person can do to reduce the likelihood of developing type 2 diabetes.
A simple blood test conducted by your medical provider is all that is needed. An A1C between 5.7 and 6.4 indicates a person is prediabetic. It is at this stage the condition is considered reversible. This blood test is part of an annual exam or well check. We owe it to ourselves and our loved ones to go in for those yearly checkups. Just like we take our cars in to have the oil changed, tires rotated and balanced, we need to have the same level of care and concern to keep our bodies in good working order. It’s preventive maintenance and it saves us a lot of money and frustration down the road. Just like avoiding maintenance of our car or home, the minor inconvenience of a doctor’s visit is minimal compared to the costs of delayed maintenance.
If we discover we are in that prediabetes range, the course of action is simple but not always easy. Monitoring lifestyle habits like sleep, water intake, nutrition, and physical activity and making small changes (or perhaps large changes) will significantly reduce risk for developing type 2 diabetes. These changes will also reduce risk for heart disease, stroke and cancer. Most importantly, making these changes improves our mood, energy and overall quality of life. Once we begin feeling better, we become more motivated to stick with our new habits.
Read below a recent interview with Karen Patterson who is currently taking National DPP, she tells us how she lost 50 pounds in the first 16 weeks!
Karen Patterson, 36 years old, two daughters, lived in PNW her whole life, moved to the Oregon Coast last year and is getting started on a health and wellness journey. These are her thoughts on our program.
“The Diabetes Prevention Program (DPP) has made me more aware of Diabetes and has helped me understand my habits and the need to change things for myself.” “I liked learning from everybody else that was pre-diabetic in class. I thought it was a good way of getting to know people in your community. Everybody struggles, and on the days where I felt like I was struggling the most, and felt bad about it, I didn’t feel alone because it wasn’t just me in class (DPP). I loved getting to know everyone!” “I loved meeting week after week, and the material was great. The fitness bands and the calorie book were fun things to get out of class. I would definitely recommend this class (DPP) because I think it is a step in getting to know what could be in your future if you are somebody who is pre-diabetic. I think it’s great for anyone to have the opportunity to do it (DPP). I like working out now, and I like eating healthier. It was a great class, I loved it!”
If making these changes feels overwhelming, consider joining the National Diabetes Prevention Program at the YMCA. If you’d like more information contact Kelly Benson at 503-842-9622 ext. 111 or kbenson@tillamookymca.org.
Perfectly Paired: Roasted Parsnips and Carrots as Your Ideal Autumn Comfort Side. Roasting these root vegetables brings out their delightful blend of sweet, smoky, and nutty flavors, making them the ultimate accompaniment for a cozy, rainy fall day.
Ingredients:
¾ pound parsnips, peeled if needed
¾ pound carrots, peeled
1 Tablespoon vegetable oil
⅛ teaspoon salt
⅛ teaspoon garlic powder
⅛ teaspoon pepper
Directions:
1. Preheat oven to 400 degrees F.
2. Cut the parsnips and carrots into uniform pieces such as 3 x ½-inch sticks or 1-inch thick slices.
3. Place cut parsnips and carrots into a large bowl. Add the vegetable oil and stir to coat the carrots and parsnips.
4. Add the salt, garlic powder and black pepper and stir until the vegetables are well coated with seasonings.
5. Place vegetables in a single layer on large baking sheet being careful not to overcrowd the pan. Lining the baking sheet with foil or baking parchment will help with clean-up.
6. Roast in the preheated oven for 20 to 30 minutes, stirring the vegetables half way through the time. The carrots and parsnips should be caramelized to a medium brown and blistered.
7. Refrigerate leftovers within 2 hours.
Notes:
Try adding other seasonings such as thyme or onion powder.